Meet the Founder
Mastaneh (Masti) Lashkari Founder | Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist #136681
I became a therapist because I was tired of the same wrong answers. Now I help high-achieving professionals find the real ones.
I Didn’t Plan to Become a Therapist.
I became one because I spent years feeling mislabeled, misunderstood, and given answers that never quite fit.
My Story
From age 19 to 26, I worked with therapists who I thought meant well, but they kept applying the same framework — more diagnoses, more medication, more symptom management. Something inside me always knew there had to be more.
Before graduate school, I had already spent years studying human behavior from a different angle. My bachelor’s in marketing immersed me in consumer psychology — how personalities form, what truly drives decisions, and how patterns shape what people choose (and why they stay stuck). That foundation never left me.
When I entered the Marriage and Family Therapy program, I expected to finally get the missing pieces. Instead, I discovered how much was being left out: the brain's engineering patterns, the timing of trauma, the defense structures that once protected us but now limit us. Even the doctoral programs I explored were still focused on adding more labels and more medication.
During COVID, I saw the mental health system from three sides at once — as a pharmaceutical sales rep in doctors’ offices, through the lens of pharmaceutical solutions, and through my training in analytical psychology and depth work. The disconnect was clear. That realization led me to make a deliberate decision: four years ago, I got off all psychiatric medication (including Vyvanse for ADHD) and never looked back.
That personal journey is what led me to create Analytical Psychotherapyand the Capacity Method — a structured integration of EMDR, hypnosis, and Reiki, grounded in analytical psychotherapy. I designed and tested everything I now teach from what I personally needed during my own struggles with depression, anxiety, perfectionism, procrastination, and the deep feeling of not being good enough.
I am a tough therapist, but my approach is gentle. I will challenge you directly, but I will never rush or overwhelm you. We work at the pace that allows your nervous system to truly expand its capacity so you can finally hold and resolve what you previously couldn’t.
Who Are My Clients
My clients are primarily high-achieving professionals — engineers, entrepreneurs, physicians, writers, realtors, and marketing leaders. They are successful on the outside, yet sense that something deeper needs attention. They want real answers, not another diagnosis or another pill.
This clinical work lives at The Psychology Projects.
Credentials
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), California
Creator of the Capacity Method (integrating EMDR, hypnosis, and Reiki)
Advanced training in Analytical Psychology & Depth Psychotherapy
Bachelor of Science in Marketing & Consumer Behavior
20+ years studying human behavior across clinical, pharmaceutical, and real-world settings
When I’m not working…
You’ll likely find me cooking, drawing or painting, at yoga, taking long walks by the beach, capturing photos, writing inspirational stories, enjoying good food with friends, or catching up on much-needed sleep.
These simple pleasures keep me grounded, creative, and recharged — the same balance I help my clients build in their own lives.
My Contributions
On my sister site, mastilashkari.com, I explore the other side of the same coin — the intersection of psychology, spirituality, poetry (especially Rumi and Hafez), stories, life choices, and practical wisdom (including topics like nutrition and supplements that support mental clarity). The two sites work hand in hand: one focused on structured therapeutic change, the other on broader reflection, connection, and soul-level understanding. Together, they reflect my belief that true growth happens when we address both the psychological structure and the deeper human spirit.
I also believe knowledge should not live behind a paywall. That is why I write The Psychology Edits — research-backed articles that challenge mainstream narratives around anxiety, perfectionism, trauma, misdiagnosis, and more.